

We just brought her home from the shelter 3 weeks ago.
The wife is settling in nicely with the dog, we are still working on the jumping up and the getting on the furniture, but it's going to take time....it's only been 3 weeks. she now walks very nicely on leash...(thanks to the gentle leader head collar) and the "accidents" in the basement have stopped. we would like to trust her with run of the first floor, but I just don't think she will stay off the sofa...and I know she will scratch at the front door and destroy it.
our biggest challenge now is separation anxiety. (we do not tell her we are leaving, or say goodbye...just put her in the basement and go...) previously she was in the basement during the day with doggy door out to her 16 X 16 pen. the problem was as soon as we left she would scratch like crazy at the hallway door...she is completely destroying it. so we decided to put another doggy door in the hallway door and then put a 36" tall baby gate from the living room to the hallway. at least then she would have a nice warm comfy place to lay during the day. Today was the first day we tried it. we left for work and my wife watched her through the front window....within minutes she jumped the 36" gate.. what now? the largest gate I can find online is 41" I just don't know if she'd jump extra 4" that just as easily.
Our last problem is with other dogs, I have now brought her over two different friends homes who have other "dog friendly" dogs, it first she is very good, a bit submissive and then once comfortable she turns into a little "bitch" she will do a little sneak attack where she nips/bites and runs away once the other dog responds. I tell her no and put her in a "time out" but I have to keep following her around the house like a 2 year old. I need to find a way to stop this as all of my friends have friendly dogs and this will end up isolating her from many activities. she is however very good with the kids and the kids friends....(which earned her major points with the wife)katoom400
In the introduction thread, someone asked if I'm new to pits, and yes this is my first pit, however my friend has a very nice pit who can be a bit of a bitch with other dogs, but is fine once adjusted. I do think that maybe I was moving a bit fast itroducing her to other dogs in a enclosed atmosphere (inside small houses) I will try walking them together in the woods off leash and see how it goes.
someone also suggested using a crate. I've had rotties in the past and always house broken them with the crate and then left it open from there. I have no problem using a crate with Lilly, however give the fact that my wife and i are both gone for at least 8 hours a day, I prefer not to limit her to the crate given the setup I have: a 16 X 16 kennel(under the deck w/cement floor) with dog door into the basement and another dog door into the 1st floor 6 X 10 heated hallway then pet gate to keep her out of the living space until I can trust her....